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Get unstuck, flow with your life again
 I can relate, I spent a large part of my life feeling stuck. Another word for "stuck" is "bored." These days, the word "anxious" fits as another synonym for "stuck."
I used to feel stuck on my health, career and relationships. It felt like this: I want to change something inside me, but I don’t know what it is or how to change it!
I knew if I changed this inner thing, my outer problems would get better. I got that part. The WHAT and HOW were not obvious!
After years as a working Medical Intuitive, I no longer feel so stuck. I still feel stuck from time to time AND I'm part of a community of self-healers who have their own good tools, I feel more confident even if I get stuck—I won’t be stuck for long.
Two things, working together, helped me get unstuck. One was a large number of 1:1 paid coaching sessions with self-healers with skills ahead of mine, in areas I wished to improve in.
The other was experimenting, using and developing new tools—many of them here now in Tools That Heal. The disturbances I needed to move were primarily sub- and unconscious, so I needed more tools for that. Before we had kinesiology testing, the primary resource we had for resolving very deep issues was persons who were clairvoyant healers. Then in the 1970s Touch for Health educated many to the fact they could test and they could test things unseen below the threshhold of the rational mind.
Yet even after NLP combined with K-testing to create so many great energy balancing techniques, my need to self-heal prompted me to develop new tools and build better ways to use the existing tools we had.
Few people arrive at adulthood with effective tools to help themselves get unstuck. Most people do not use forgiveness and no one I have met knew how to use it optimally. You can learn optimal use of forgiveness in the free Slow-motion Forgiveness article ™ at this site.
Tools that Heal is a place to come to find tools you might like to try. If you find one you like, make it your own! You own a tool by USING it.
Once motivated to heal your stuckness, you look for tools: go to the gym, take a nap, eat healthier, say goodbye to stale relationships, find what you are passionate about and put action on it, and so on.
If outer ways of getting unstuck don’t produce the change you wish, then you pretty much need to look at inner ways of getting unstuck. Tools That Heal can help here. More broadly, counselors and coaches you trust also come into play as practical resources.
Why does everyone get stuck?
"I'm stuck." Here’s some refreshing news: That’s an assumption.
What’s also true is, “If you can feel it, you can heal it.” Which do you prefer to believe?
Stuck energy keeps sending us the same old messages. As NLP says, if you wish different results and you continue with the same old behavior, you are asking for frustration. Tools That Heal—wherever you find them—will help.
Re-writing our own stories
It’s our old stories that keep sending us the same old messages. Lately personal-spiritual growing seems to me to be a process of re-writing your own story. All of us her on earth seem to be in the business of re-writing our stories on the right and left sides of our body.
On the left side of our body we hold onto poor me stories of lack and emotional emptiness.
On our right side we tend to hold onto stories that compensate for our under-charged left-sided stories. On our right side are our puffed up, inflated ego stories, our know it all stories, any story that makes us feel good when we think of it—even if it’s made up.
As in acupuncture, the easiest way to untangle these compensating dysfunctional stories, is to address the left-sided undercharge first. Then the overcharged right side will calm down; it won’t have to compensate any more. See more about this in Meridian Metaphors, Psychology of the meridians and major Organs.
How can I do what I care about?
Getting unstuck will get you back to doing things you care about, working on a goal or dream you have juice for, passion for. Anything that helps you concentrate your energies on what you are passionate about will help here.
Focus on that one thing until you have a result you are happy with. Really, just the one thing.
What’s my willingness to get unstuck?
I don’t find giving or listening to advice does much. What works better for me is to check willingness to heal. If I want a change in my life, I scan my body in various ways. I measure each view on a scale of 1-10, ten being high willingness to change and grow that direction. I’m happy if I find a high number! I’m also happy when I find a low number. Now I know where to apply myself and my toolbox to raising my willingness to get unstuck on that goal.
If you can already self-test, go ahead and test yourself on your willingness to change.
If you can’t test, see my books or call for training by phone.
If you get stuck, give me a call 310-280-1176. I’m here to help you get you more CIA: Coherent, Integrated and Aligned. That’s what my guides and mentors have done for me.
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